The Cubicle Man - Lesson 3

Today I felt a little perplexed. I was the recipient of a temper tantrum coupled with some rather strong words. I did some post-mortem analysis on the events that led to that unpleasant experience (this is what I do) and I came up with a few conclusions.

1. I guess the pressure of it all got to that person and I ought to just shake off what he said because I could have just as easily shot my mouth off had I been in his shoes - with everyone asking for the impossible.
   
2. I have - once again - vocalized my thoughts without some consideration first. It takes effort to constantly think of what to say before you say it. Many times I don't. Had I done so, this afternoon's unpleasantness could have been avoided. (Irregardless of who is in the right or wrong.)
3. I feel that ever so often, it is better to change myself, be adaptable to the different personalities I come across, rather than expecting someone else to change. I may not always have the ability to change the minds of others but I can cultivate the ability to change myself.
   
4. I am quite proud of myself. I have succeeded in quenching my temper and 'righteous' idignation on many occasions (not always). Sometimes I feel, could all these internalizing of anger be bad for me? I am not too sure about that, but I do know that not allowing one's feeling and emotions to take control is one manifestation of 'quiet' strength.
   

I have decided to post this because I want to archive this experience. When I look back at this post, I will remember that my working life is not without its struggles. I live I learn I walk one step forward. I think that is important... that difficult step forward.